Friday, April 13, 2012

Wouldn't it be great if solving marital problems could be as easy as solving Junior High algebra problems? You read the material and attempt to do the problem. If you are wrong, you erase your answer, call your friend for the right answer, and redo i

Due to the complexity of the problems and the details involved, it is not realistic to think you can fix it all at one time. In this article I'm going to present to you 3 reasons why you should deal with tiny details to improve your marriage and not the big problem.

1. Catches your spouse off guard. Making changes to the small things does not always result in something that is visibly apparent. It can result in the change of atmosphere in the house. Or it can be that although no one else may notice, you know what you have done and it makes you feel better. If you try to change things for your spouse, there may be less resistance and better chance of success if they do not know what you have done.

For instance, let's say that you have been fighting a lot lately. You notice in yourself, that one thing that has happened lately, is that you don't greet him at night with a smile anymore. Now it is only a "Hi, how was your day." when he comes home. Between me and you, this may seem like no big thing (I'm a man) but if you change this one little thing, your husband (or wife) might not even consciously notice it, but it could change the whole atmosphere in the house.

2. To do it better. What is easier to clean, every room in a skyscraper, or one room? Obviously you'll get better results by cleaning one room, you'll be able to focus on all the hard to get corners, high ceilings, etc. The same concept applies when you want to repair your marriage. The narrower the focus the better the results. You will be able to put all of your effort into each little task to make the best out of it before moving on to the next thing.

3. Nip problems in the bud. When you begin to focus on little details and begin to do things about it, you will also be able to see little things that are going wrong before they mushroom into big problems. Like that smudge on the window you may have by-passed with a quick and hasty swipe, you can now see it by taking the time to work on every little area of the window little by little. By noticing it and taking the steps to wipe it clean, you can stop it before it smears even further.

There is no question about it; solving marital problems is a million times harder than even the most difficult algebra and trigonometry problems. Start with the small sore points, be consistent, and, in time, you will enjoy a great and happy marriage. Really.

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